Don't waste your tears on people who refuse to love you. For after you have cried, they still will not love you. Our culture is addicted to the concept of "success." In my life, I have gone in and out of being in love with it. There is nothing wrong with being successful or pursuing success. This blog is all about you pursuing success in the area of Loving and Living Your Unique. But having the right view of success is a necessary part of attaining it. suc·cess /səkˈses/